So here we are the beginning of November. Over the last 20 years that I have been matchmaking,  I don’t know of another four weeks when singles lurch forward into new states of mind quite so dramatically and we are busy. Hoping to see physical manifestations of our hearts desires feels more urgent on […]

It’s an everyday occurrence that we come across a great Single that’s too good not to share! You might be thinking…. dating ?!?!?  Yet you have likely recognized in your clearest moments that there is a greater possibility for finding love, despite your best efforts. And, like so many of the singles I speak to […]

  Forget masks, social distancing, or being vaccinated the real issue stopping you meeting the love of your life might just be your politics. Reporting from the dating frontline, we can attest the politicization of dating is real , especially during an election.  And, according to the clients we work with 50% believe its important […]

Whether you’ve been online dating for what feels like forever or are totally new to the search for love, or a date online, there’s no denying “swipe apps” start to feel like a game. I personally hear from my clients everyday that they don’t like it and its more frustrating than not. Want to break […]

I have seen over this last month with the singles I speak to, it can be quite difficult as a parent to adjust to a new home and family dynamic after the kids have moved out or on to university living. They have shared feelings of loneliness and restlessness and it’s important to realize that […]

Stop worrying.  Stop panicking.  Nothing good can come out of the expecting the worst. The way you are feeling, lost and alone, its normal. All singles go thru it. Thank yourself for how far you have come- it hasn’t been easy. If you’re not having the best experience and are open to creative possibilities and […]

The media & TV, you see, contributes to the failure of many relationship expectations around the world.  Glamorizing and magnifying fairy tales that cause us – women especially- to have unrealistic expectations about how successful romantic relationships are found and maintained and when you think dating becomes a challenging situation it becomes pervasive in your […]

To all the single men, I am honestly giving you a chance to meet one of our best Bachelorettes in an exclusive way, and at no cost to you. Stop dreaming and start dating – she is ready to meet you and she is quite the catch! She’s an attractive, slim, and established semi retired […]

One of the biggest things I work with Single Dads on when I’m matchmaking is that if you want to meet a 100 percent woman, you need to be a 100 per cent man.  Developing positive, healthy relationships with others only comes when you can develop a positive, healthy relationship with yourself. However, truth be […]

There is no secret in finding the right partner (we do it everyday)! Thanks so much to hosts Robin Farrell & Chelsea Smith on their very popular Vancouver Island hosted podcast “Don’t Mind if We Do”.  Come join us. There is always room for one more at their table and we shared a lot of […]