I have noticed that for most of the singles I speak to, including me, surrendering is often the hardest thing to do. And to be realistic, it’s hard to entirely step away from hustle-culture when you are in a life you are passionate about and a romantic relationship you want to progress in.
Well, that hustle-culture has finally hit dating. And when things are not going the way, we wanted them to, then we give up. We think that something is wrong with us or the person we’re meant for or the love we are desiring to find, doesn’t exist.
If this is you, imagine this VALENTINE’S DAY to consider your journey to attracting romantic love. It’s like driving, you’re on a journey and when you meet your love you’ll be excited and know that there will be detours along the way (unfavorable dates, no one calling you back, not asking you out on a second or third date, emotionally unavailable singles, etc.) and that you may have to do things differently than you had preferred, and it may take you longer to get to him/her than you expected but eventually you’ll meet and you’ll be so happy that you didn’t give up.
So, decide that from now on if your dating life is unfolding in a certain way and the only reason you are resisting is because of a personal preference, why not let go of that preference and let life be in charge.
I’m confident it’s the most powerful thing that you can do.