James (not Real Name) couldn’t get a break. For the past three years, he spent 5-8 hours a week “playing” a few of the paid online dating sites, but he’s only hit it close to meeting his match less than a handful of times. He still keeps trying, sure his luck is bound to change.
Sound familiar? Have you been pouring time and energy into online dating looking for a chance to find love quick from the comfort of home and so far, it hasn’t worked. To make matters worse your friend and/or colleagues are meeting someone on a first date. It really isn’t fair.
What a lot of singles don’t realize is that winning at finding love has nothing to do with luck and there’s no question playing the online dating game to find true love can be a fool’s game. Play it for fun if you want but don’t do it because you think its going to help to find you your mate.
While its true, personalized matchmaking ups your chances of getting a second date 80%, its far more than the less than one-third of people who have used online dating have never actually landed a date with someone they corresponded with.
If you really want to improve your experiences for the chance to find love do something boring; keep trying and investigate the world of Matchmaking……. I’ll put all the finding, vetting and connecting on the table for you…… you can just have fun and enjoy!
No matter how bad or slow things go… “You’re still way ahead of everyone who isn’t even trying.”
– Tony Robbins