What’s your attitude about dating over the holidays?
Forget the latest new gadgets, put down that brand-new watch, leave that aftershave on the shelf; Ladies, what men really want for Christmas is Love. According to how busy I am this time of the year, men are the ones who really crave romance during the holidays. For them the worst day of the year to be single is Christmas Day. Surprised?
Well it is possible to find love at any time of the year, but just 12 months ago, December 2015, I was lucky enough to meet Michael (not his real name) who took some time out of the holiday chaos to seek a different approach to find romance.
My advice was simple, lets put together an action plan to find love. Its no different than a business plan, combined with no nonsense tips for finding his perfect mate and not wasting time with someone he was not compatible with. We walked thru the steps which included scouting thru a series of confidential, custom high end ads that we ran in the paper and social media.
Then, in January, I met Elizabeth (not her real name) who saw his ad. After qualifying she was a great fit for him, they met in February, and they both were smitten. While I admit, you never know how things will play out with couples I introduce when it comes to chemistry, but if I’ve learned anything and the advice I give my clients, you sometimes have to step outside the box and at least give things a try. Today, December 15, 2016, just 12 months later, they’ve both had their Christmas wishes come true.
Lastly, here is a card from the self declared “lover’s sweethearts” I received in the mail today from their recent travels together quoting, “Every day with Michael, no matter what we’re doing, is such a wonderful day. He truly is the love of my life.’”